Tika is in the process of becoming a man. Tika's girlfriend, Nicki, is in the process of adjusting to Tika's becoming a man. Realness is a casual and intimate portrait of a relationship confronting the essence of the value of appearing male.Tika confesses that she feels she is being treated more equally as a man, while Nicki expresses some misgivings on the effect that the newly injected testosterone is having on their relationship. Filmmaker David Barclay Moore lets the audience in on Tika's transitioning while discussing views on black male privilege.